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Willing acceptance, or “amor fati” (love of fate), is a key tenet of Stoicism. It involves embracing everything that happens in life, whether good or bad, as necessary and beneficial. This concept is closely related to the Stoic practice of focusing on what is within our control and letting go of what is not.
At the heart of Stoic philosophy is the dichotomy of control, which divides all aspects of life into two categories: things we can control and things we cannot. According to the Stoics, we can control our own actions, thoughts, and reactions, but we cannot control external events or the actions of others. Willing acceptance involves recognising this distinction and responding to life’s challenges with equanimity.
While willing acceptance offers many benefits, it can be challenging to practice consistently. Here are some common obstacles and strategies to overcome them:
To build tranquillity in your daily life, practice mindfulness of your thoughts and emotional responses. Each day, set aside time for reflection and meditation, asking yourself: “Am I reacting to this event, or am I responding with clarity and reason?” Focus on accepting life’s unpredictability, grounding yourself in the present, and letting go of judgments that lead to distress. These practices are cornerstones of the Stoic approach to inner peace.
Whenever you feel your mind becoming unsettled, pause and remind yourself: “This too is beyond my control.” Shift your focus to the present and realign your thoughts with what you can influence.
Stoicism teaches that tranquillity of mind is not something that comes from the absence of challenges, but from our ability to respond to them with wisdom and composure. By controlling our perceptions, staying grounded in the present, and accepting life’s uncertainties, we can cultivate a profound sense of inner peace.
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Inner tranquillity arises from focusing on what we can control.
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Living fully in the present moment quiets the restless mind.
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Embrace life’s events as they are to find lasting peace and tranquility of mind.
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